Finding joy in the gym

Author: Jerusha Sagbeh

Are you one of those people who dread the idea of going to the gym? Does the thought of a workout seem tedious? If so, you're not alone. I used to consider the gym a necessary evil, associating it with sweat, soreness, and endless reps. But what if I told you that the gym could be a place of joy, a sanctuary where you find peace and happiness? Let me tell you how you can discover true joy in the gym and transform your fitness journey into a rewarding experience.


  1. Firstly, you should redefine goals: Shift your perspective from focusing solely on achieving physical perfection to setting attainable and enjoyable fitness goals. When I first started going to the gym, I used to have this mindset of having abs in a week, and I’ll go so hard on myself, and at the end of the day or week I ended up not seeing any progress then I get discouraged and stop going. What I learned from that is embracing the idea that progress is not always measured in inches or pounds but in the joy of pushing your limits, mastering a new skill, or completing a challenging workout. Sometimes lack of variety can suck the joy out of any activity, so why stick to the same routine at the gym? For me personally, I take a friend with me many days, or some days I go with one of my parents (and trust me taking a parent to the gym can be so much more fun than you think) because you get to teach them how to use different types of equipment and or do certain exercises.

  2. Finding your tribe and working out with like-minded individuals can make the gym experience more enjoyable. Join group fitness classes or find a workout buddy who shares your enthusiasm. The fellowship and support can turn the gym into a social hub, where you feel motivated, encouraged, and uplifted. Always celebrate progress, big or small.

  3. Acknowledging your progress, no matter how small it may seem, whether it's completing an extra rep, running a little longer, or mastering a new yoga pose, celebrate these achievements. Each step forward is a triumph worth rejoicing in. Your gym experience is heavily influenced by the atmosphere around you. Try creating a positive environment by personalizing your workout space with motivational quotes, uplifting music, or anything that energizes you. A positive environment can significantly impact your mindset and elevate your gym journey.

  4. Another important thing that helps me out is embracing Mindfulness. I try to be present during my workouts and focus on how my body feels during each movement. Mindful exercise can foster a deeper connection between your mind and body, allowing you to find joy in the act of movement itself. Set realistic expectations and avoid setting overly ambitious or unrealistic goals that may lead to disappointment. Instead, focus on consistent progress and gradual improvements. Remember, every step you take towards better health is a step worth celebrating. Lastly, don’t forget to treat yourself with kindness. Above all, be kind to yourself throughout your fitness journey. Listen to your body, acknowledge its limits, and avoid self-criticism. Embrace self-compassion as you push yourself toward your goals.


In conclusion, finding joy in the gym is not just about reaching fitness milestones; it's about cherishing the process, celebrating your progress, and embracing a positive mindset. By redefining your goals, seeking variety, surrounding yourself with supportive individuals, and practicing mindfulness, you can transform the gym into a space of empowerment and happiness. Embrace the journey, and let the gym become a source of joy that extends beyond the physical realm, positively impacting your overall well-being. Remember, it's not just about the destination; it's about the path you take to get there. Happy exercising!